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Showing posts with label etiquette. Show all posts
Showing posts with label etiquette. Show all posts
Wednesday, January 21, 2015
DOES SPORTSMANSHIP ETIQUETTE MEAN PRESERVING YOUR OPPONENT'S DIGNITY?
A recent high school game ended in a score of 161-2. No, you're not seeing things. On January 5th, Arroyo Valley High School beat the snot out of Bloomington High School in San Bernadino, Ca. leading to the suspension of Arroyo's coach, Micheal Anderson for two games. His offense, poor sportsmanship. My first thought was how does a team that is clearly more dominant even play a team that can only score two points. Maybe there really needs to be a change in scheduling or maybe the winners could work with loosing teams to help make them better, thus leading to more competition. Mr. Anderson defended the score by pointing out his benching the starters at half time and asking the replacements to take time off the clock. It didn't work, they still beat Bloomington like they stole something, which produced cries from the community of unfairness. Was Coach Anderson wrong, what else could he have done? What would you do? He couldn't stop the game, so the choice he opted for led to only a 159 point difference. At question here, I believe is a question of preserving their opponent's dignity. Notice I didn't say pride. Pride is meant to be broken, but dignity is meant to be cherished. Perhaps once the score reached a 50 point difference, the game could have been called and the guys could have been still able to hold their head up instead of the the public coming to their rescues further embarrassing them. I have to throw two etiquette flags on this play. One on the coach for knowing better and one on the community for pointing it out.
Friday, January 16, 2015
WILL PRESIDENT OBAMA GIVE A PRESIDENTIAL PARDON TO "EMPIRE" FOR RECENT DISRESPECT
WOW! President Obama had a rough week. Between the outrage over the whole "not attending the unity rally" and Americans questioning his leadership, I was hoping we could get to Friday without anymore problems. Boy, I was wrong. The new Fox television series Empire, described as "Dynasty Gone Gangsta" shocked the world during this Wednesday's, January 14, 2015 airing. Given Fox's history with democrats, they chose not to pretend and came out swinging as Fox executives decided it would be satisfying to deploy the "F" bomb to disparage our president during prime time? I have to pull my "etiquette flag" and throw it at the feet of everyone at Fox who thought it was alright to let "Fxxx the President" ride on national television. We get it, Republicans hate Obama, but when has the line of free speech crossed over to a platform of such vitriol toward the man with his finger on the button. Though teaching etiquette is my calling, I thought I would live to see disrespect on such a large stage coming from the mouth of someone who looks just like me reaffirming every stereotype others have of the black community. Indeed this public tongue bashing cuts to the very heart of courtesy and patriotism. I am the first to respect artistic expression and freedom of speech, but insulting the chief executive in such a visible way, well it broke every etiquette rule in the book beginning with RESPECT EVERYONE. For this most egregious etiquette offense, FOX and EMPIRE should issue an apology as public as they disrespected the president of the United States.
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